How long should I wait to have sex? At Intermezzo Montreal, our matchmakers and life coaches often address this topic with clients.
We recommend to our members that all first dates are used simply to meet and learn a bit about the other person, and last no longer than 60 minutes. We believe that it’s better to leave hungry for more rather than to stretch out a first encounter, even if it’s going extremely well!
We have been collecting feedback from dates for over 18 years and we’ve concluded that “doing the deed” on the first or second date is not necessarily the best course of action if you’re thinking long term.
Ladies, keep in mind that he probably prefers being turned down at the very beginning! Yes, he wants to sleep with you but he also likes being told NO! It may be contradictory but it is the truth. Chemistry between two people can be extraordinary but it’s important to advance slowly and surely, but most importantly, intelligently!
Let us know what you think! E-mail [email protected]
Joan S. Paiement
Joan S. Paiement
